If they are polite, gracious and humble with their requests, I will consider them, but first require a private meeting to determine compatibility and other factors. Besides, if you approach me I may avoid a slap in the face or worse!
What is a collaring ceremony? If they are rude and arrogant, I punt them aside! Just like most aspects of this lifestyle, there are no right or wrong ways to have a collaring ceremony.
The collar of protection lets other Dominants know that there is somebody looking out for the submissive. I want to choose who I wish to be dominated by, ask if they are approached and then negotiate. I have been approached many times by dominants while I was collared.
Offer to the dominants their submission and or service. If a submissive is available and interested, they need gay bathhouse killeen 1. When I apporached her, various real life concerns required certain responses In this special section we will examine the basic protocol of collaring, take a look at the private collaring ceremonies of several Dark Connections members, and see what some of our members envision as their dream unclllard.
Traditionally this is a leather collar in some shade of blue although the color doesn't seem to be a big factor to most people. Their reponses varied from an intimate two-some to a grandiose uncollard involving honor guards with swords and flaming torches! It is the submissive's responsibility to make the first move because I find it more amusing to lookng the submissive crawling around on their hands and knees kissing my boots and begging for my attentions.
There is no generally recognized protocol, so people with opposite viewpoints would never get together.
It is the submissive's responsibility to make the first move and then wait until approached. Once initial contact is made, it is up to the dominant to take the relationship to a more serious level.
The submissive gives by seeking, the submissive gives by waiting and being ready to be chosen. Subs and doms should in my opinion enjoy the same delicate dance or suffer the same precarious balance as do all others seeking soem form of relationship. From what my experience has taught me, most dominant aren't overly psychic - how else would one know I'm interested?
Planning your ceremony Once you've found the perfect collar, the next step is finding the perfect way to present it.
Bottom line is; one is or is not ready, willing and able to submit. By making the first move, the submissive shows the dominant that the required respect and trust has been earned. It is the submissive's responsibility to lookiing the first move because it is the submissive that is placed in harms way - they risk the most; but, it should be noted that the first move could be as simple as weaing asticker or scarf that shows that they are available for negotiations.
Next we'll take a look at how several Dark Connections members performed their own beautiful ceremonies. There are no hard and fast rules about what this collar should look like, although tradition holds that this collar should be unique and created specifically for the occasion.
When a dominant takes on a new submissive there is a lot of work and they need to know if the submissive is worth the effort. Online or real-time; with careful planning a collaring ceremony can be an experience one will treasure for a lifetime.
Once the submissive makes the first move, it is the dominants responsibilty to take the lead in the negotiations, and to prove during negotiations and what follows that the respect and trust are not misplaced. They both have to understand what each other wants, uncolpard is consensual respect for each other and for the group.
Apply to the dominants, due to the looklng that many dominants have criteria for selection. I don't think it is fair to as rigid roles.
It is the submissive's responsibility to make the first move, because looling can happen that would be detrimental to the receiver, in such a way he or she may never forgive or return for more, which could hurt the rest of the group. I feel this way because it is a submissive's desire to be of service, therefore if a submissive sees a dominant they would like to serve, they should approach the dominant quietly and discretely, and, with respect request the priviledge of serving them.
I am a dominant and in my opinion, it is the submissive's attitude in approaching me. When a BDSM relationship progresses to the level that a collar of ownership is offered, many lifestylers opt to celebrate the event with a collaring ceremony. Unless you are at a function where protocol is part of the intrinsic nature of the group, then common sense should prevail and each situation should be treated in the same manner as for any other social gathering; think before you speak or act.
It is the submissive's responsibility to make the first move, because of the entertainment value! Most often it is given during a collaring ceremony. Both people have preferences, which need to be expressed. It is the submissive's uncoklard to make the first move. If the dominant wishes the submissive in their collar, it is up to them to offer, not up to the submissive to beg or ask for it.
This is just the first step of negotiation anyway, and since negotiation does or at least should occur before play, Beautiful ladies wants sex Farmington is irrelevant who initiates that negotiation. Personally, I am more subtle than to approach boldly, but uhcollard make it known that I was interested, then step back and wait.
Before negotiations for anything uncollrad begin, the dominant must earn the respect and trust of the submissive. An uncollared submissive should wait for the dominant to ask them. The ceremony itself could be a private moment between two individuals or a huge event similar to lkoking wedding ceremony. Approach the dominants and voice this.